Men are dying in silence. Across the world, suicide is one of the leading killers of men and boys — not because they don’t feel pain, but because they’re taught to hide it. This post explores why men underreport depression, how stigma fuels quiet suffering, and what we can do to change it.
Category: Depression
When work works against you: How our jobs shape our minds.
Work and mental health are inseparable. As a scientist living with depression, I’ve learned that discipline—not motivation—keeps me steady. Structure transforms chaos into calm, reminding me that routine isn’t restrictive but restorative. Our jobs shape our minds; the key is learning to work with, not against, ourselves.
Devotion and despair.
“Devotion and Despair” traces a year of extremes — the joy of marriage and the heartbreak of professional collapse. It’s a story of resilience under pressure, of love holding steady when identity fractures, and of learning that sometimes devotion demands letting go of the things we thought defined us.
The hurts of a past life.
“How do you pick up the threads of an old life? How do you go on, when in your heart you begin to understand... there is no going back? There are some things that time cannot mend. Some hurts that go too deep, that have taken hold.” ― JRR Tolkien
Avoidance of self-discovery.
For over a year, I avoided sitting alone with my thoughts — drowning reflection in noise, work, and music. "Avoidance of Self Discovery" explores why silence can feel unbearable, how constant stimulation masks deeper truths, and what happens when we finally dare to listen to the chaos within.
Mental Health in the Work Environment.
Work can inspire or exhaust us — sometimes both in a single day. Mental Health in the Work Environment explores how workplace stress erodes focus, fuels anxiety, and silences vulnerability. It argues for open dialogue, supportive employers, and personal strategies that protect well-being — because no career should cost your peace of mind.
Bullying, depression and suicide.
Behind every statistic lies a story — one of pain, silence, and preventable loss. "Bullying, Depression and Suicide" explores how cruelty and humiliation can spiral into despair, why both victims and perpetrators suffer, and what research reveals about this growing crisis. Understanding the cycle is our first step toward breaking it.
Bullying: a victim’s perspective and experience.
Bullying doesn’t always end when the school bell rings. Its echoes shape confidence, relationships, and self-worth long into adulthood. "Bullying: A Victim’s Perspective and Experience" retraces my journey from ridicule and self-doubt to reflection and resilience — revealing how cruelty corrodes development, and how empathy, awareness, and kindness can begin to heal it.
Social isolation and mental health.
Isolation protects the body — but can quietly wound the mind. "Social Isolation and Mental Health" explores how loneliness, disconnection, and “perceived isolation” affect our well-being, especially during the COVID-19 pandemic. Combining science and lived experience, it reflects on empathy, resilience, and how genuine connection can exist even from afar.
The science behind SAD.
Why does winter seem to drain our mood and motivation? "The Science Behind SAD" explores the biological and psychological roots of Seasonal Affective Disorder — from melatonin and serotonin imbalance to the surprising effects of light therapy. Blending humour, science, and self-awareness, it sheds light on why darker days can dim our spirits.